Sunday, September 17, 2006

Another guy hits on me!

For the past week, yours truly has been holding down the fort whilst the parental unit went out to Alberta to attend a funeral, and also to visit with family. I'm happy that Mom had a chance to get away...she and I have been together every day almost since I moved home, and while I love her to bits, having the time alone is rather peaceful, despite the 12-18 hrs I put in every day taking care of the house, the birds and the restaurant. So I fell like I'm in a daze at times, and I have to drink insane amounts of coffee to keep myself alert. So far so good tho..I'm handling all the responsibilities like a pro..altho now because of my tiredness, I cannot get into my Messenger because I forgot my password, so I'll wait a few more days and see if I can get in again. Sigh.
Anyhoo..I digress..I wanted to tell you I got hit on yet again....this guy was drunk, and unsteady on his feet, and had a difficult time navigating his way to the front door of the pizzeria. No kidding...he walked past it not once, not twice, but THREE times! Sounds like a winner eh? SO he orders a pizza. I asked him about the night before where he'd asked me to put together a bouquet of flowers for a chick he was interested in..little did he know the girl he was after plays on both teams (if you know what I mean). SO he said he didn't want to talk about it..all the while slurring his words..I have a feeling he found out what her orientation was.Lol!!!
So he starts asking questions like what I did on my days off. I told him I get out of this town and take advantage of going to Thunder Bay or the Soo for some shopping. As if I'd hang out in town on my spare time you know? Then he says.."okay I'm gonna ask another question". I said "Uh oh", cause I knew what was coming. He said, "so you're married right?" I said "No". He said, "you wanna go out sometime?". I said, "No thanks". (I'm getting quite good at shooting guys down now! He kinda gave me a wierd look, so I said, "Don't take it as a slight to you..I just don't date." He didn't believe me. For the record to all my Blogger family, I have not had a single date since I left Lethbridge. And I don't regret it either. Oh well. Even if I did date I wouldn't date him because he drank excessively, wears too much cologne (blech!) and the kicker...he had no problems bouncing from one chick he was interested in to aother in less than 24 hrs..sounds to me like he's a player. Not interested!
I am starting to get a little pressure from some people I love that its time I do get married. Today I talked to a lady who'd called for mom, who remembered me when I was 4. She was telling me I should get married, and I told her that there is no one in this town that could possibly fit the bill.....not only that I work all the time, and never go out. Another lady who's been pressuring me is my own Godmother, who I absolutely adore because she's such a warm, bubbly person. I don't mind hearing these suggestions....I do hate hearing it from people who are not in my inner circle. Especially from women who think that getting married and having kids is the ultimate goal every woman was meant to accomplish. I say to them, whatever. Right now what floats my boat is being single, and being cool with who I am and with my status, And I can honestly say I'm there. And no...theres still no "Biological clock" ticking away in the background. I've never had the urge to be a human incubator, and I doubt I'll have the urge in the near future.
Okay I know this entry is a little strange..I felt like blogging, and just spewing out whatever was going on. Other than the shit I mentioned..things are pretty quiet. Would like to hear from others out there who haven't sent me a message in a while. Hoping all is well with you. Cheers!

3 Comments:

At 10:01 AM, Blogger Oh great One said...

I've been a "human incubator" and I love it. That doesn't mean that everyone should aspire to do the same. Quite frankly I think it's rude for anyone to badger you into getting married or dating for that matter, inner circle or not. With the sort of hours you have been keeping I think it would be difficult to fit someone into your life anyway. Do what makes you happy.

 
At 10:38 PM, Blogger Sugarfoot said...

Your an attractive woman. I'm sure you have a number of guys interested in you. It's too bad that for you the pickings are slim in your neck of the woods. You're right, you don't need to have kids or a serious relationship to be happy and healthy.

 
At 10:55 PM, Blogger Stranger said...

Thank you OGO and Sugarfoot...I think kids are totally far out, but you know, the way my lifestyle is right now, it wouldn't work out.I like the idea of someday being the "cool aunt" who buys the toys that make the noise.lol.

 

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